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Repeated Exposure Still Beats Every Shortcut — But Picture Books Might Be the Most Underrated Tool in Your Kitchen
9/10/2026
When I wrote about picky eating last June, the central finding was that most toddler food refusal is developmentally normal, and that the interventions with the best evidence share a common mechanism: repeated, low-pressure exposure. The research since then hasn't overturned that…
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